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So, I know it's been awhile since I've posted, and I'm sorry! I've just been really busy with Scarlet, my new horse. I'm really sick of men right now, you know why? Because the one that I was dating for awhile, broke up with me on a Friday because of various reasons that had nothing to do with me, but anyway, on the next Monday, he had a new girlfriend. -.- Why? But I'm not going to rant about that right now, I'm over it, it was over a month ago, I should be over it.

But there are a lot of things I've realized while I was in a relationship. . . The most important thing I realized is that a lot of girls (maybe me included) are more interested in the IDEA of a relationship than any guy that they know. Which is so unbelievably true. We want a relationship, not a guy. Society nowadays fills us with pictures and songs and so many things that make us want to have a boyfriend that treats us like Queens, so we get desperate, and feel like we need to be in a relationship, so we go and get with whoever we think is even remotely attractive. But that guy probably isn't the one for us. We're more in love with the relationship than we are with the guy. We just want someone to share cute text messages and kisses with. That's all. And when that doesn't happen, we get sad, and depressed, and begin to think we are 'forever alone'

 But that's not true. What so many girls my age don't realize is that beauty is just an opinion. Society's opinion of beauty is a perfect face, no blemishes, perfect hair, perfect makeup, etc etc. There are only a few people in the world who are made with this type of face. So what do we do? We go and cake make-up on our face to cover up our uniqueness. I would be guilty of this too, so I'm not criticizing. But if you think about it, all this is doing for ourselves is making us want to be more perfect, and that's something no one can be no matter how hard we try. It's also making our egos plummet, and guy's standards go up. Perfect isn't exactly attractive either.What is there to fall in love with if you're perfect? think of perfect has a cliff with no hand holds. People will fall right past you. But beauty and attractiveness is also an opinion. What I find attractive is going to be different that what you find attractive, and the same with guys, what one guy finds attractive is going to be different from what some other guy does. That's also something we as a female race don't understand. While yes, one guy may be looking for perfection, his standard of perfection is much different than someone else's. You shouldn't have to change who you are to be perfect and to live up to someone's standard, because there's going to be some guy out there who isn't looking for perfection in society's sense, he's looking for perfection in HIS sense. Which most likely means that there will be flaws from your perspective, but that's perfect to him. That's what we should be looking for. We shouldn't have to change, NO ONE should have to change to become perfect. You are you, and you should be unique and different than other people or else there is nothing to love. If every girl was the same in looks and personality, then no one would know what to do, or who to love. We need imperfection, that's what makes us separate from the world.

So I know that was probably a little scatterbrained, but that's what I thought of, hopefully you understood it.